A guy once asked me what I considered to be my sexiest body part (how original). I responded: "my brain". Cuz, that's really where it all happens, isn't it? Have you ever had a friend who was dating (or married) to someone and you wondered to yourself "what does he see in her? Or she see in him?" While the physical aspect definitely has some significance, I think it's something else that attracts one person to another, even a combination of that something else. Because haven't you seen someone whose drop dead gorgeous (by society's standards) and you think "eh, does nothing for me." Or had someone interested in you and there's nothing wrong with the person, you just aren't "attracted" to them; or how about that person you've known for years and never really noticed, when all of a sudden, you must have them. What is that thing? (Did you just say "alcohol"? ha ha.... you’re funny!)
Seriously though, while you think about your own "taste", I'll bore you with my top twenty: Jim Morrison, Jack Sparrow (but not Johnny Depp, although he's attractive, he doesn't give me that "zing" the character Jack Sparrow does), Ben Harper, Walter Skinner (from "The X Files"), Jimi Hendrix, John Lennon, Harrison Ford, Tom Petty, Mo Vaughn, Neil Young, Adam from Bonanza (I've lusted after him since I was a little girl), Keith Richards, Little Steven Van Zandt, Mickey Rourke, Tupac Shakir, Robert DeNiro, Ricky Ricardo (yes, of "I Love Lucy" fame), Samuel L Jackson, Tommy Lee Jones, Henry Rollins...well, there they are, my top 20 (that I can think of at the moment), that "flip my switch." Mind you, I, of course, know none of these men but my point is, there's that certain something I can't describe nor explain, that exists, that attracts you to one person while not another...and it doesn't necessarily mean one is "better" than the other, it's just...chemistry. And when it's reciprocated...wow.... is there anything like it?
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love and attraction sucks:(... I'm just going to be like the "crazy cat lady" on the Simpsons forever... alone, living with 100's of cats, and babbling, screaming, and throwing them at people.. that's the life! hahaa...
Modern Research has determined that a chemical attraction is caused by pherenes that we emit and the program of the receptors on the other person. In 55 years I have only been "aware" of four or five females while out in public ( the chemistry set of my "attraction" system. I was in my thirties when I accepted the fact that my "attraction" system is programmed for other males that emit pherenes for other males. None of this has related to the Society standard of what is sexy. While working in publicly visible employment ( retail and service), I have been approached and interacted with many women, that my co-workers were all over me about as they were either celebrities or by some strange standard regarded as extremely sexy. I have found that many "sexy" females have the sense system that says I am likely to be "safe" to approach as I am unlikely to have any sexual interest in them. I have been told that on two separate occasions by "hot" women who needed to take care of business without being "ogled" or "approached." It is the same comfort zone seen in many hair salons as the gay male hairdresser seems to build a client base better than his straight male counterpart. This could turn into a very interesting Wallyology reort some morning. Brian would have a well lit telephone. Thank you for sharing the thoughts.
--- Steve
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